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MistressTae
MistressTae
Pro Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do???? Where are the good boys and good sluts who want to serve, get pegged and suck dick for their Mistress?
Female (57) Durham, North Carolina
Nikkisix9
Nikkisix9
I have a rich daddy fetish. I’m lookin for an EATER!! ….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon! In need of spankings, guidance and grace. Tell me something daddy
Female (38) Durham, North Carolina
Pleasure_in_Pain
P**************n
42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced. Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB. - Sapiosexual - Demisexual - INFP-T, 4w5 Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker Here are more of my interests: Exchange (D/s) • Impact Play • Masochism (Submissive) • Bottom (Submissive) • Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.) • Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.) • Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
SweetSensualSwitch
S****************h
Poly & Switchy I'm into meaningful connections, good conversation, laughter, great food, game nights, being outdoors, and trying new experiences. I'm also into kink, open communication, emotional intelligence, and building relationships based on trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Affection, curiosity, and a playful sense of adventure go a long way with me. Age play, biting, bondage, breast play, breath control, choice restriction, CNC, collars, ***, examinations, following directions, hot wax, ***, ice, impact, massage, medical play, milking, nipple play, orgasm control, photography, primal, roleplay (DDlg, doctor/patient), scratching, sensory deprivation, service, squirting, toys, TPE, wearing/being told to wear certain things. Those are the big ones, but certainly not everything/all. Lol.
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
ohana_ains
o********s
Curious, open-minded, and intentional. I’m into power dynamics, playful control, and mutual exploration. Communication and consent are non-negotiable. I value chemistry, intelligence, and people who know what they want. Let’s talk about fantasies first — the best tension starts there. I'm truly a switch. I can be more dominant with women, but with men I need someone who can take the lead 😏 Verse or dom men & any beautiful woman prefered.
Female (23) Durham, North Carolina
DarlingNikki919
D*************9
I am still pretty new to this lifestyle, but I very much enjoy exploring my submissive side. I am looking for the right Dom. Someone who is willing to put the work in rather than just send me a "nice tits I'm your Daddy now"
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina
mixigum
m*****m
I’m looking for someone who seems nice and sweet i love being praised I love reading and exploring my hobbies, very much a home body
Female (20) Durham, North Carolina
that_chick_melanie
t****************e
looking for a dominant man who is willing to be patient in my exploring of the kink world. looking for a deep and meaningful dynamic that goes beyond the kink, if that’s not you then keep it moving xoxo
Female (27) Durham, North Carolina
dankbaby235
d*********5
heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :) tryna have fun and be real
Female (28) Durham, North Carolina
Kitty1228
K*******8
just because you see something you like, does not mean that it likes you back automatically.
Female (50) Durham, North Carolina
cootiepatootie
c************e
looking for a partner to explore all the beautiful green spaces around town 😘😜 Need someone who’s clean & wants to keep things cute. Love being spontaneous & adventures but I’m not just a piece of meat ok ty 😌 I like fucking outside/semi public, being a brat, impact play, etc.
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina
Luckycharms34
L***********4
I've been out of the lifestyle for a while and wanting to get back. I've recently moved to NC from TX. I love nature, cooking, most movies, & kareoke.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
Animagus_Bolt
A***********t
I hate color, love black and everything dark. (If you see me in pink know you are imagining it) I love being out at night and doing things that are considered gothic. Honestly just a cute baby bat🦇🦇🦇🖤🖤🖤 Same name on fetlife I have one amazing partner who is married to my bestfriend. I am looking for my anchor partner/primary. I am a subleaning switch and really want to find someone that fits the role of Master and Daddy. Quotes I live by: Will the world end? Not all who wander are lost.
Female (23) Durham, North Carolina
durhammadam28
d***********8
love to learn you looking for a special online playmate I’ll never disappoint get to know me cuz I’d love to get to know you. https://***/userProfile/***
Female (28) Durham, North Carolina
LesbianBabygirlPet
L****************t
only looking for a soft cis female mommy dom I’m a lesbian no men interest me ill block u if u hit on me just don’t cross my boundary and leave me alone if you’re a man! I’m looking for feminine females that like kink and taboo are open minded and looking for a pet in real life that can be dominant and train where I can give my TPE to you and trust to give it to you it’s not automatic it’s earned
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
Female (56) Durham, North Carolina
midwestern_bee
m************e
New to the community, and I want to make connections. I don't leave the house much, and I'm looking to change that 😊😊 🐝🐝 What I'm Looking For... 🐝🐝 I'm still exploring what I like, but I have some good ideas so far. I know I'm submissive, and interested in trying ropes, clamps, impact play, and wax play. I'm a people pleaser, so maybe be tell me nice things and I'll obey. And my head's real loud sometimes, and maybe I need someone to slow it down. 🐝🐝 A Few Vanilla Facts About Me 🐝🐝 I'm tattooed, chronically anxious, on the short side, and pretty nerdy. I play video games, DnD, and I'm an avid hockey watcher. Also, I love a good nap.
Female (25) Durham, North Carolina
brattybeebri
b**********i
I’m just a girl with a bubbly personality, very kind and giving. A little bratty. Here to explore the kink side of things. Open to most. Looking for something serious and long term.
Female (29) Durham, North Carolina
romancetoo
r********o
New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.
Female (46) Durham, North Carolina
ToBeeKnown
T********n
Im pretty laid back and love meeting new people! I can be shy at first which is why I joined Fet. I love movies, staying active by rollerskating and dancing. I love EDM and R&B music, dancing and vibing the night away...if it leads to more that is a bonus.
Female (33) Durham, North Carolina
screaming_pixie_0619
s******************9
would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina

New members in Durham

Nikkisix9
Nikkisix9
I have a rich daddy fetish. I’m lookin for an EATER!! ….&& make sure I have what I need so I can’t wait to see you soon! In need of spankings, guidance and grace. Tell me something daddy
Female (38) Durham, North Carolina
MistressTae
MistressTae
Pro Goddess Domme Mistress - In Mebane, NC DO NOT contact me if you can't handle no, no thank you or we are not a good fit. I am over supposed to be grown men throwing tantrums and calling me out my name when I decline. I have choices and preferences just like you do! What?s a FemDom to do???? Where are the good boys and good sluts who want to serve, get pegged and suck dick for their Mistress?
Female (57) Durham, North Carolina
Pleasure_in_Pain
P**************n
42 y/o female submissive - been heavy into the lifestyle for 3 years and am very experienced. Not looking for hookups, not looking for FWB. - Sapiosexual - Demisexual - INFP-T, 4w5 Just recently started getting into predator/prey, Hunter/stalker Here are more of my interests: Exchange (D/s) • Impact Play • Masochism (Submissive) • Bottom (Submissive) • Edge Play (Breath Play, CNC, *** Play, *** Play, knife play, etc.) • Bondage and Restraints (Rope, Bondage Cuffs, Tape, Handcuffs, Collars, Predicament, etc.) • Toy and Equipment Utilization (Spreader Bars, St. Andrew’s Cross, Whips/Floggers/Paddles/Crops)
Female (43) Durham, North Carolina
SweetSensualSwitch
S****************h
Poly & Switchy I'm into meaningful connections, good conversation, laughter, great food, game nights, being outdoors, and trying new experiences. I'm also into kink, open communication, emotional intelligence, and building relationships based on trust, honesty, and mutual respect. Affection, curiosity, and a playful sense of adventure go a long way with me. Age play, biting, bondage, breast play, breath control, choice restriction, CNC, collars, ***, examinations, following directions, hot wax, ***, ice, impact, massage, medical play, milking, nipple play, orgasm control, photography, primal, roleplay (DDlg, doctor/patient), scratching, sensory deprivation, service, squirting, toys, TPE, wearing/being told to wear certain things. Those are the big ones, but certainly not everything/all. Lol.
Female (36) Durham, North Carolina
cootiepatootie
c************e
looking for a partner to explore all the beautiful green spaces around town 😘😜 Need someone who’s clean & wants to keep things cute. Love being spontaneous & adventures but I’m not just a piece of meat ok ty 😌 I like fucking outside/semi public, being a brat, impact play, etc.
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina
ToBeeKnown
T********n
Im pretty laid back and love meeting new people! I can be shy at first which is why I joined Fet. I love movies, staying active by rollerskating and dancing. I love EDM and R&B music, dancing and vibing the night away...if it leads to more that is a bonus.
Female (33) Durham, North Carolina
midwestern_bee
m************e
New to the community, and I want to make connections. I don't leave the house much, and I'm looking to change that 😊😊 🐝🐝 What I'm Looking For... 🐝🐝 I'm still exploring what I like, but I have some good ideas so far. I know I'm submissive, and interested in trying ropes, clamps, impact play, and wax play. I'm a people pleaser, so maybe be tell me nice things and I'll obey. And my head's real loud sometimes, and maybe I need someone to slow it down. 🐝🐝 A Few Vanilla Facts About Me 🐝🐝 I'm tattooed, chronically anxious, on the short side, and pretty nerdy. I play video games, DnD, and I'm an avid hockey watcher. Also, I love a good nap.
Female (25) Durham, North Carolina
brattybeebri
b**********i
I’m just a girl with a bubbly personality, very kind and giving. A little bratty. Here to explore the kink side of things. Open to most. Looking for something serious and long term.
Female (29) Durham, North Carolina
durhammadam28
d***********8
love to learn you looking for a special online playmate I’ll never disappoint get to know me cuz I’d love to get to know you. https://***/userProfile/***
Female (28) Durham, North Carolina
Kitty1228
K*******8
just because you see something you like, does not mean that it likes you back automatically.
Female (50) Durham, North Carolina
ohana_ains
o********s
Curious, open-minded, and intentional. I’m into power dynamics, playful control, and mutual exploration. Communication and consent are non-negotiable. I value chemistry, intelligence, and people who know what they want. Let’s talk about fantasies first — the best tension starts there. I'm truly a switch. I can be more dominant with women, but with men I need someone who can take the lead 😏 Verse or dom men & any beautiful woman prefered.
Female (23) Durham, North Carolina
Animagus_Bolt
A***********t
I hate color, love black and everything dark. (If you see me in pink know you are imagining it) I love being out at night and doing things that are considered gothic. Honestly just a cute baby bat🦇🦇🦇🖤🖤🖤 Same name on fetlife I have one amazing partner who is married to my bestfriend. I am looking for my anchor partner/primary. I am a subleaning switch and really want to find someone that fits the role of Master and Daddy. Quotes I live by: Will the world end? Not all who wander are lost.
Female (23) Durham, North Carolina
dankbaby235
d*********5
heyyy!! I’m 28 looking for a female bisexual to have fun with me and my man & go on about our days :) tryna have fun and be real
Female (28) Durham, North Carolina
romancetoo
r********o
New to all this. Single again after 20 mostly unsatisfying years. I think I am naturally submissive but haven’t had anyone who knew what to do with that. My ex would try sometimes but it just made me laugh. would love someone with real masculine energy lol. I read a lot and realize there is a whole world out there that I’ve been missing.
Female (46) Durham, North Carolina
mixigum
m*****m
I’m looking for someone who seems nice and sweet i love being praised I love reading and exploring my hobbies, very much a home body
Female (20) Durham, North Carolina
Luckycharms34
L***********4
I've been out of the lifestyle for a while and wanting to get back. I've recently moved to NC from TX. I love nature, cooking, most movies, & kareoke.
Female (35) Durham, North Carolina
that_chick_melanie
t****************e
looking for a dominant man who is willing to be patient in my exploring of the kink world. looking for a deep and meaningful dynamic that goes beyond the kink, if that’s not you then keep it moving xoxo
Female (27) Durham, North Carolina
LesbianBabygirlPet
L****************t
only looking for a soft cis female mommy dom I’m a lesbian no men interest me ill block u if u hit on me just don’t cross my boundary and leave me alone if you’re a man! I’m looking for feminine females that like kink and taboo are open minded and looking for a pet in real life that can be dominant and train where I can give my TPE to you and trust to give it to you it’s not automatic it’s earned
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina
screaming_pixie_0619
s******************9
would love to be your little pet for the night, an entertainment prop for your group of friends or the perfect caged centerpiece for your swinger party
Female (30) Durham, North Carolina
VioletMoonWhispers
V****************s
I’m a big white lady, 54 who is looking for her dominant man. I’m looking for long term not a hook up. I also don’t play til I build trust with someone. if you are not serious about building a relationship/friendship I’m not for you. I don’t do hookups. I’m not going to submit to anyone who doesn’t want to build some trust, I’m sorry that’s a hard pass. I’m single, no kids. I like spanking, flogging, bondage. I also like daddy play as well as primal play or rough sex. I would like to try “free use” days or weekends with someone I trust. I’m not a 24/7 submissive. I’m way too independent for that, maybe a designated amount of time or a modified version. There is so more I’d like to experience and learn in the kink world, just asked me about it. I would like to try Domme or mistress role I maybe flirting with diving into the switchyness. I would like to try. That may not stick. If inquiring minds want to know, my bra cup size it’s K, it doesn’t go high enough on the toggle to put it there.
Female (56) Durham, North Carolina
DarlingNikki919
D*************9
I am still pretty new to this lifestyle, but I very much enjoy exploring my submissive side. I am looking for the right Dom. Someone who is willing to put the work in rather than just send me a "nice tits I'm your Daddy now"
Female (44) Durham, North Carolina

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puppy_kissesxoxo
what puppy breed would I be? 🐶

hiii 🐶 I'm curious what puppy breed I would be based on my appearance/vibes/photos etc!

i think I'm more of a chow chow puppy but thats just me but I'm curious what other people might think... just super fluffy and big... I don't think all chows are mean at all even tho ppl say that chows are "mean breeds" but I'm curious!
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around Canada Port Alberni
XoxotinaCT
I’m fucking horny.

28f Wtby, just come use my holes.
Twitter/X is *** I’m more active there.
Call me a good girl and use me.
Kinky Date ● 20 to 84 years ● 457km around USA Naugatuck
Angelalove45
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I am a woman who knows how to find a common language with different people, adventurous , energetic, ready to do anything to make the world a better place and life more interesting. I can't sit still , I like to add colors to life

I like fishing, cooking, hiking, reading, movies, swimming…. tele @loveeeeee3456
Kinky Date ● 55 to 80 years ● 265km around USA Dallas
worshippingkit
Dom looking for ***

Im ***, ik you guys prob think im looking to scam but im a real girl. i have a femboy bf and im looking for a sub who wants to meet up with me and or me and him. I want one i can do cash meets with and then fuck at their place to establish the dominance. im basically looking for a cuck, its what i want and need my bf is my dom amd now i need my sub.
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 55km around USA Los Angeles
shygirl85
Extra ticket

I have an extra ticket to a movie munch next Monday July 27th. Looking for someone to join me to watch the fifth element! Maybe get a drink after…. HMU if you want to go!
Munch Buddy ● 37 to 55 years ● 25km around USA Enfield
florissant19702
Cum have some cyber fun with me

Regardless if you are local or not come have some cyber fun with me. If you are local lets see if we vibe enough to have a fun night together.
Kinky Date ● 30 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Florissant
BunsForDaysxxO
Gangbang group chat

If you want to be added BOTH MEN & WOMEN to an XXX group chat on snap… DM ME NOW!! It gets spicy in there, you MUST BE ACTIVE and not afraid to share XXX content!!!!
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Washington
princessdaisylily
Looking for Mr.Right💋

Hi! I’m looking for someone genuine who’s kind, caring, and enjoys spending quality time together. I’d love to get to know someone whose company I truly enjoy and who values building a real connection. If we click, I’d be open to meeting with a mutually beneficial arrangement. I’m hoping to find someone who’s respectful, affectionate, and looking for something meaningful, even if it’s kept simple.
Club Buddy ● 18 to 68 years ● 60km around USA Tarzana
Mads1995
Little girl looking for dom!

Hello I’m a little and looking for a dom daddy!
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 31 to 48 years ● 135km around USA Centerville
Bluefairy96
Female 🫠

Looking for a famale to play with me and my partner NWA or near.
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Lowell
prettyasskai
Hot chocolate Dom

Looking for an obedient pay pig willing to bow down and submit
BDSM Play Partner ● 33 to 80 years ● 270km around USA Houston
mobile55452
Text meee

Heyy I'm Elizabeth im 20 and looking for fun and for someone to get my hair and nails done text me if thats you
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Waveland
avajulieskins
Come Worship Me

I am fascinated by the wonderful and obscure things that turn you on. I love learning about My submissive’s relationships to their desires and unravelling their sexuality and why certain fetishes and kinks are so intriguing.

I like to take control of all of your senses, I will train you to become completely relaxed under My control as you enter into a deep trance-like, euphoric subspace, leaving you feeling extraordinary.
NSA ● 18 to 99 years ● 500km around USA Phoenix
crystal25fun
Looking for some fun

Looking for a good time. FS, BBBJ, Greek, PSE. Into bondage, role play
NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 40km around USA Columbus
strawberrysunrise17
Looking for a daddy
  1. Small bbw, looking for some cnc/bdsm/petplay/ddlg fun. Willing to travel/move if you want to own me
BDSM Play Partner ● 33 to 62 years ● 500km around USA Hartford
pssyqueen7687
Beast

Love beastiality
BDSM Play Partner ● 18 to 80 years ● 500km around USA Raleigh
canton224
Kinky date Kinky date

I’m looking for a long-term relationship
I want to be dominated after care and
Safe words are important to me, 
BDSM/Fetish Family ● 34 to 65 years ● LoftNC in USA Charlotte
Veronica_69
$$P2P$$

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NSA ● 18 to 80 years ● 80km around USA Columbus
submissiveservant26
Looking for Nursing Mamas

My partner loves sucking on mommy's breasts, and I just found out he enjoys them being filled with milk, but I don't produce. Anyone want to play with us or with him while I watch?

He also mentioned being turned on by a woman not knowing she's producing milk. I want this to be a surprise for him anyway, so maybe we don't tell him and you pretend you had no idea? lol
Kinky Date ● 25 to 38 years ● 480km around USA Roopville
motel
looking for something casual

i wanna find someone for a 1 time thing who matches my kinks and preferences. let’s chat! 💕🖤
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Bon Air
albuquerque22271
CnC play??

Dm me if u like cnc play
Kinky Date ● 18 to 80 years ● 25km around USA Albuquerque

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